Friday, August 31, 2012

8 Warning Signs That He Is Just Using You …

Some signs he is using you can be right out in the open, but you might not know it! If you have a feeling that he is using you, it might not be a healthy relationship to be in. Below, I’ve got the top 8 signs he is using you for your money, for sex or even just for a place to crash. Ladies, you deserve better than just someone using you!

1. You Pay Every Time You Go Out

Even though the guy is supposed to pay, you constantly find yourself paying for every single thing when you two go out. Does that seem to be the case with your relationship? That’s definitely one of the top signs he is using you. While it’s okay to split the bill, you shouldn’t constantly be pulling your wallet out to pay.

2. He’s Only Available When He Needs Something from You

What about his availability? Do you constantly find that he isn’t available unless he needs something from you? This is definitely a sign he is using you girls. After all, don’t you want a guy that is going to be available when you need him to? Not just when he needs you?

3. Financially Dependent on You

Not only do you pay for everything, but he is actually financially dependent on you. He expects you to pay all of the bills that you two have, no questions asked. He doesn’t even contribute to the monthly bills that he has racked up with you. This is a sign he is using you girls and you shouldn’t stand for it!

4. You Are His Convenience

Are you constantly finding yourself his convenience for a ride or for an ‘allowance’? That should never be the case when you are in a mature relationship ladies! Everything should be even, you should never be someones ‘convenience’.

5. Emotional Blackmail

Is your boyfriend constantly blaming you for things that go wrong in his life? Does he constantly say that it is your fault that he doesn’t have a job or any direction? This is a sign that he is using you girls and you shouldn’t stand for it!

6. He Never Buys You Anything

Do you constantly buy him things, but he’s never, ever gotten you something back? Does he eve buy you anything? That’s a sign ladies. After all, shouldn’t your boyfriend buy you some things sometimes?

7. He Doesn’t Need You for Anything but Things That He Needs

Does your boyfriend not take into account your needs? Maybe it’d be nice once in a while for him to pick you up, instead of you constantly picking him up. Does he not take any of your needs into account when he makes decisions? It’s a sign girls.

8. He Never Takes Your Feelings into Consideration

Finally, does your boyfriend take any of your feelings into account? Does he even think about how his actions affect you? This could be a sign he is using you ladies!

Ladies, if you see any of these signs he is using you, it isn’t a healthy relationship. So girls, have you ever been in a relationship that had any of these signs he is using you?