14 Ways to get him Hard!

The great sex guide
“Don’t ask for sex – just take it!” Is the advice from sexpert and author of Supersex For Life, Tracey Cox. Which is why we’re sharing Tracey’s skills to get him (and you) going…



1. Feel him up in public
Choose a restaurant that has long tablecloths, unzip him, and deliver a discreet but delicious mini-hand-job (minus the happy ending, obviously).

2. Snog him sexily in front of his friends
Makes him look and feel like a Rock God, and his friends see how much you want him.

3. Let him see you
He’s a natural voyeur so choose positions where he can see your breasts bouncing up and down. Let him open your legs wide to see your vulva before giving you oral.

4. Use your hands
Put your fingers inside yourself while he’s watching or let him insert a vibrator, a dildo, or some love eggs. Men like seeing things disappear inside – and it’s not just his penis.

5. Muscle up while he’s inside you
Clench your pelvic floor muscles hard, grab his buttocks, and pull him close. Take over the thrusting and up the speed as you lean in to give him a deep tongue kiss.

6. Get naked in the changing room
Get him to wait outside the fitting room while you try on clothes, then invite him in after you strip off. He’s fully clothed, you’re naked – you can get away with him giving you two minutes of oral before the shop assistants get suspicious.

7.Leave filthy photos in places where he least expects them
Use a Polaroid to take up-close-and-personals. And I mean up close. (To us, it’s not pretty; to him, it’s an oil painting.) Tape one of the photos to the bathroom mirror as he’s having a shower and then wait for him in the most brazen pose you can live with.

8. Let him know you lust after him as much as he lusts after you
“I’m never convinced she really enjoys it” is something men tell me all the time. Make noise, move, hire a plane to stream a message across the sky – let there be no doubt!

9. Do a “Paris” and tape a sex session
If you don’t want any evidence hanging around, erase it once you’ve recorded it and had a little peek at the results. Half the fun is performing for the camera!

10. Invest in some “slutty” stuff purely for wearing at home for him
Skyscraper stilettos, tops slit to the navel, skirts so short you might as well just be wearing a thong…

11. Leave the blinds up as you’re having sex
He doesn’t know you chatted with the neighbours on their way out to dinner 20 minutes ago.

12. Play the no panties game
It’s especially effective if you flash or tell him you’re commando in situations where he can’t ravish you. Go to the bathroom at that stuffy dinner party, take your panties off, and discreetly, under cover of the tablecloth, push them into his trouser pocket when you sit back down again.

13. Make out in the back of a cab
Up to you how far you go – the kick is in knowing the driver is secretly watching in the rear-view mirror. Open your legs wide (knickers on) and let him put his fingers inside you and he’ll love you forever. True, the cab driver knows what you’re doing but he can’t see anything but a bit of inner thigh because his hand and your knickers cover the rest.

14. Tempt him at the traffic lights

Pull your skirt up, take his hand, and put it between your legs or inside your top to run his hands over your breasts.