Monday, March 22, 2010

12 Seduction Tricks That Always Work on Guys …


Seduction is a form of art that can only be mastered over time and with practice because remember darlings, practice makes perfect. If you’re a girl who does not know how to seduce a man and haven’t had much luck in the past, here are my top 12 seduction tricks that work!

1. Set the right environment

It would be a good idea for you to create a romantic environment. Make sure you are in a place where there aren’t too many distractions such as people, loud music and a mess. The best place would be a candle-lit dinner at your home with soft music playing in the background.

2. Confidence

Men love it when women show just how confident they are about themselves. Straighten up those shoulders, put your nose in the air and walk like you are full of confidence. Be warned, you do not want to overdo this one and look arrogant.

3. Eye contact

Eye contact is numero uno on this list. Your eyes will let him know just exactly how you feel. So lock those beautiful eyes on him while you talk. Maintain a steady gaze but do lower your gaze occasionally to his lips and look back up. Whatever you do, remember, it is rude to stare.

4. Play hard to get

I never really understood this one, because when you’re playing hard to get, what if the guy gets under the impression that you are not interested? I guess moderation as always is the key. Men enjoy the chase. So play a little hard to get but don’t ever be so cold or rude that he loses interest in you. Just make things a tad harder.

5. You’ve got the looks

Slip on that sensuous dress and let those locks fall down your shoulders. Wear those dangerously high heels and put on some make up. Bring out your best features such as your lips, neck or eyes. Don’t try too hard though. Find a perfect balance between your own subtle self and a femme fatale.

6. Modulate that tone

Nothing is more seductive that a sensuous, gentle tone. And no you don’t have to talk dirty. Just whisper something in his ear such as “you look good in black” using a seductive tone. The guy is not only going to be flattered, but you will be getting those brownie points.

7. Flirt

Oh yeah, it is definitely good to flirt! Tell him how good he looks and sound genuine while you do it. Blink your eyes and get that vulnerable, yet hard to get look. Slightly touch him on the shoulder while laughing. Don’t ever overdo this though.

8. Smell good

Put on some seductive perfume and you will lure that guy in. Make sure you do not put on too much. You do not want to smell like it’s your substitute to a shower. Here’s a nice little trick that my grandma taught me. If you have rose perfume, then put some rose essential oils in the bathwater. Put some powder on that smells like rose, lotion and then perfume. Spray it in front of you and then walk into it. Ah! Divine!

9. Stroke his tie

If he is wearing a tie, stroke it. Strangely, men look at their neckties as an extension of their… yeah. Hey, I didn’t invent that, I don’t know why guys think what they think half the time. By stroking and admiring the tie, you will be sending over some sexual signals.

10. Display your cleavage

If you are in a private place, then display some cleavage. And by some I do not mean be like Jodie Marsh. A little peek-a-boo with the girls will get him just a wee bit excited…exactly what we want ;)

11. Show me some leg girl!

Ofcourse nothing turns on a man like bare, toned legs. So don’t be afraid to put on that short dress and high heels and strut your stuff. Never show off both cleavage and legs at the same time. There is such a thing as too much exposure.

12. Use your mouth

And last but not the least use your mouth….Err not what you’re thinking. I mean lick your lips subconsciously, sip your wine seductively, eat your dessert just a little too slowly and look like you’re really enjoy it. Basically, draw attention to your mouth and you will send your message across!

Those are 12 tips on how to seduce a guy and I bet they’d charm his pants right off :D What about you? What tips do you have? What do you like the most off of my list?

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