Monday, June 28, 2010

7 Signs That It’s Time to Leave Your Boyfriend …

Women dump their man for a variety of reasons. Most of them have a tendency to hang in there until they cannot take it anymore. If you are in a relationship and have some confusion, then I have 7 signs that it’s time to leave your boyfriend. If you are a guy who is trying to look for 7 signs that it’s time to leave your girlfriend, then you can find that as well. Just look through my profile and you will find it. I didn’t leave you guy s out…

7. He ignores not only you, but your feelings as well

Having a lack of empathy should be enough for you to know that it is time for the relationship to end. If your favorite pet dies and he does not care, then it may be time to move forward.

6. He’s not there

It seem almost as if he has became invisible. When you are with someone, they should be there for you. If you live in the same town and he doesn’t really call to meet you, then he is probably not excited over you. If you are living under the same roof and he is searching for activities constantly that does not involve you, then it may be time to end the relationship.

5. You do not know him anymore

At one point in time, you felt as if you knew everything about him. Including his feelings, his thoughts, wants and what happens in his life. Now, everything has changed. He could have changed his job and you won’t even know if. You can never be in a relationship with someone that you barely know.

4. You cannot stand him

Okay, spending time with him is horrible. It has come to the point where you cannot stand being around him. Why should you cling to him when you know that you do not like him? If he makes you mad, then just disengage yourself from him. Don’t cause any more hurt than you have to.

3. You are keeping secrets away from him

Now, we are not talking about your private life. You are entitled to have that. However, lately, you feel as if you are not able to confide in him for different reasons. You are not able to trust him, he’s too harsh on you and he is judging you. You should have trust in your man.

2. No sex

If you went at it like bunnies in the beginning and now, you do not want to sleep with him and there is no medical reason, then you should break up. Sure, a natural decrease in the frequency of having sex is perfectly normal. I am talking about total absence of any desire to have sex with the guy.

1. He has cheated on you more than once

Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me. If he cheats on you twice, don’t welcome him back again. You are just going to be letting him know that you are always going to take him back and he will continue to cheat on you.

Those are 7 signs that it’s time to leave your boyfriend. If all of those signs are there, then it’s important to just let him go. You do not want to hold him down longer than you should, that is not going to get either of you anywhere. Perhaps I need to write a blog on 7 ways to break up with your man? Look for that under my name soon. So, do you have any relationship questions?